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Tools of the Trade for March 2, 2020

A Weekly List of Links and Resources for Pastors

It’s hard to believe that it’s March already! Here are some links for reading, filing, and sharing with your people. Some of the articles I link to make great resources for counseling.

For a pastor, making the decision to leave your church is one of the most difficult decisions to make. Jeff Robinson writes about how pastors should think through this issue.

This article relates the experience of a church planter, but anyone who has been deeply hurt while in ministry can benefit from this article on healing by Tyler St. Clair.

Here’s an article about taking notes. The article comes from a secular source, but the title, “Take Notes That Can Be Understood Two Weeks from Now” talks about a practice that most of us can use in our ministries. And if you’re still in school . . .

Those of you in church plants or re-plants will appreciate this article on celebrating milestones. It’s available as a podcast or as text.

This is one that you can sneak on the literature table. It’s about responding to change.

I did not have the opportunity to attend seminary to the point of getting a Master’s Degree. I wish I had, though. This article by Tim Gough encourages youth pastors to attend seminary.

I just returned from my monthly lunch with two pastor friends. Ironically, two of us are no longer in ministry, but that’s what we end up talking about. We’ve been meeting for over a decade, and have stood with each other through some hard stuff. I’ve written about this, and Daryl Dash reinforces the importance of pastoral friends.

Here’s one for the literature table by Kristie Anyabwile. She writes “An Open Letter to the Older Women in the Church.”

Do you get discouraged when there are a lot of empty spaces in the congregation? Here’s some encouragement on how to respond as preachers.

That’s all for this week. Thanks for dropping by. I hope something above is helpful. See you on Wednesday!

I’ve Been Thinking

Lately I’ve been thinking . . .

About the Lord’s Table

Have you ever talked to your church about what they should – and shouldn’t – be doing during the Lord’s Table? In preparing the church for this very important practice, most pastors rightly refer to 1 Corinthians to review what Paul writes about the Lord’s Table. As part of that review, we often quote verses 27 & 28 to direct people to take a look within and, if I can put it this way, get their spiritual house in order so as to be prepared to take Communion. In that way we won’t be taking the Lord’s Table unworthily.

I’ve heard this admonition often. But do we really want to convey the idea that we can do anything to become more worthy? I am not suggesting we should be cavalier with regard to sin, but the only reason we are welcome at the Lord’s Table is because of what Jesus did in his sinless life, death, and resurrection. He alone makes us worthy.

I’ve talked with people who struggle with forgiveness. They wonder if God has really forgiven them. And they wonder if they’ve confessed all of their sins. It’s not hard to imagine an overly introspective person going back over sins that have already been confessed, just to be sure that they are not sinning further by “being unworthy.”

In a 2014, pastor and author Joe Thorn put it this way:

“On the other hand the Lord’s Supper is sometimes treated as an overly-introspective and nearly depressing act. Some are encouraged to so focus on their sin that, despite the highlighted and visible gospel proclamation happening in the Lord’s Supper, the joy of salvation is nowhere to be found. In fact, some believers will decide not to participate at all because they have messed up “too badly.” There stands the table. The invitation is made. But some fear they shouldn’t go forward because the past week was one filled with sin and unbelief. Some think, “I blew it this week. I better not do it.” But here is the truth. Just as Jesus came, not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance, so the Lord’s Supper is for sinners (Luke 5:32).”

I think it would be worthwhile for pastors to re-study this passage and read what commentators say in order to understand and explain it accurately. If we don’t, we may inadvertently turn our people’s focus primary inward rather than toward Christ. If we look at this passage carefully, I think we will conclude that what Paul is talking about has a whole lot to do with the way the Corinthians were behaving and how they were treating each other.

One more thought: rather than a long period of silence while the elements are distributed, would it be more helpful to read passages relating to the meaning of Jesus’ death responsively or in unison? A meditative song about the Cross could also be appropriate. I wonder if we’ve privatized the Lord’s Table by focusing on individual over corporate response. Just thinking . . .

About What Our Worship Services Teach Our People

We teach our people in more ways than preaching. When we plan our worship services, we should realize that – from start to finish – we are shaping the way people think about God and our relationship to him.

Our music choices need to be carefully evaluated for doctrinal faithfulness. Popularity is not close to the top of the list of what makes a song appropriate for church singing. And that goes for older songs as well as newer.

Our prayers should be thoughtful and varied. We need prayers that praise God, confess sin, show thanksgiving and dependence. We should be praying for missionary work in other places, and for those who are being persecuted for following Christ. We have to avoid what may come across as incidental, off-the-cuff prayers.

The way we talk about the offering is instructive. We should talk more about giving to the work of God, reminding people of what their giving enables. We should focus less on meeting the budget.

About Trying Too Hard to Be Relevant

About a year ago I was in a church where the speaker referred to Jesus as “that Cat” and told us that God was “a smart Dude.” I know he was trying to connect, but it was awful. So little in our world – including the Christian world – points to God’s holiness. No one wants to listen to someone spill 30 minutes of seminary-talk. But we don’t need to go to the other extreme and treat holy things so casually.

About Bible Translations

I’ve been using the English Standard Version since shortly after it was released, and it is my preferred translation. But our pastor is using the Christian Standard Bible, published by Holman. I had mistakenly thought that the CSB was published by one denomination. However, the CSB was produced by a group of scholars evangelical pastors would easily recognize, coming from a variety of traditions. I like it. I’m not sure I’ll “switch,” but the more I read it, the more at home I feel. It is a bit easier reading than the ESV. I’d recommend that you get a copy. I picked up a hardback with center-column references on Amazon.

Thanks so much for stopping by. If you have any thoughts to share, feel free to email me at or use the moderated comments section. I’d be glad to hear from you!

Enhance Your Ministry With Some Free Resources

A couple of months ago I was noodling through some baseball-related websites online and came across a site that I had never seen before. I shared this with some other baseball lovers on a discussion forum and like me, it was also new to them. For those interested in baseball history, it’s a treasure trove of information. I’ve been online for 25 years or more, but I had never seen that resource.

I was going through my web browser’s bookmark folder the other day, removing links to websites that were obsolete or no longer of interest to me. In doing that, I came across my list of Christian and Bible-related websites.

If you are a young pastor, you are in the process of building a library. Whether you build a library of books or you use a software program like Logos or Accordance for the bulk of your library, it takes a substantial financial investment. Most young pastors don’t have limitless funds. You may have some basic reference tools and perhaps a modest (or maybe even small) library of commentaries and theology texts. And you wish you had more.

As I was going through the links in my Christian/Bible-related folder, I thought about sharing a few of the ones that can be very helpful in supplementing your personal library. So here are some sites that you should bookmark. Maybe there’s one or two here that will be to you what that baseball site was for me.

The name 9Marks may be familiar to you. I have often linked to articles from 9Marks on Mondays. But they have a great selection of resources in their online articles and downloadable journals that you may find very helpful. You probably won’t find much in the way of Bible exposition, but you will find articles about church life, pastoral ministry, and theological/ecclesiastical trends. If you have an issue you’re dealing with in your church life or ministry, make sure you take a look at their resources page.

Wish you could take a seminary class? Some are available via iTunesU, but check out for some college or seminary-level classes. You may find a class that you can download and work through at your own pace that will supplement your education. Here’s a link to their website.

Many of us use PowerPoint in our preaching and teaching. It can be helpful to show a map or other visual when we are explaining a text. has a collection of over 5,000 images that can be used in your ministry. From all I can tell, these pictures are free for use. Check them out here.

Theological journals are a great way to keep up with current trends, new books, and discussions of theological issues. There are several online, but two I would recommend are The Master’s Seminary Journal and Themelios. Add to that Credo Magazine and you have a good collection of online periodicals to refer to. Some of these sites allow downloading PDF files. Look at The Master’s Seminary Journal here. Themelios can be found here. Credo Magazine can be found here.

Here is one of my favorites. Commentaries can be very helpful in understanding the meaning of a passage, but it can often be helpful to see how others are presenting the passage. The Gospel Coalition has an extensive set of links to both audio and document files of sermons and lectures. You can search by topic or by passage. Check it out.

The Instititute of Biblical Counseling and Discipleship (IBCD) has a decent collection of articles and talks (some audio) on very practical subjects relating to, uh, counseling and discipleship. Very helpful resources can be found here.

Finally, the Proclamation Trust is a British ministry that equips pastors to preach well. Their resources include sermons and instructional audio material. Look here.

I’m scratching the surface of Christian websites, but resources like these can extend your learning and provide help in your personal life, your sermon/lesson preparation, and your pastoral ministry.

Is there anything on this list that’s new to you? Oh, and if you’re interested in that baseball site, here you go.

Have a good week, and I will see you on Friday. Thanks again for stopping by! And don’t forget, Evernote is your friend.

Tools of the Trade for February 24, 2020

A Weekly List of Links and Resources for Pastors

Here are some links that you may find helpful. Let me encourage you again to share some of these with your people.

Kevin DeYoung encourages preachers with his article “How to Improve Your Preaching.”

Sometimes we wonder what we’ve gotten ourselves into as pastors. Ronnie Martin helps us with: “I Am A Pastor, Therefore I Fear” is a great reminder for any pastor.

Jason S. Derouchie contributes to the discussion on preaching from the Old Testament in this article called “Jesus’s Only Bible.”

Speaking of the Old Testament, Colin Adams writes “Ten Quick Suggestions For Reading Old Testament Narrative.”

Here’s one to read and share: Lydia Brownback writes “How God Sees Me.”

Jared Wilson’s Podcast discusses the subject of pastors and plagiarism.

Aaron Menikoff gives us “5 Reasons Pastors Ought to Pray for Slow Growth.”

Jonathan Baer reviews book by Jason Allen called “Discerning Your Call to Ministry.”

Tim Challies originally linked to this article by Aaron Wilson on “75 Icebreaker Question for Church Small Groups.”

So good: Devon Provencher’s “An Open Letter to a Children’s Ministry Worker.”

It seems that there is a general reawakening of interest in the Psalms. David Gundersen gives us “5 Reasons Pastors Need the Psalms.”

Eric Schumacher writes “Church Song is Corporate Preaching.” Which is one reason why we need to avoid dopey songs.

Hopefully you are compensated fairly for your work. But if not, this article may be of some help. Greg Phelan answers the question, “Can I Ask for a Raise at My Ministry Job?”

I hope you have a great week! I’ll see you again on Wednesday. Thanks so much for stopping by.

It’s Friday, But Monday’s Coming

In an article that goes back a few years, Jared Wilson writes:

Monday. What to do with these Mondays of ours?

If you’re a pastor or ministry leader, I know that Mondays for you can be a mixed bag. You may be still glowing from yesterday’s victories — high attendance, vibrant worship, the well-preached sermon and ensuing compliments. Or you might be still smarting from yesterday’s wounds — struggling ministry, sluggish praise, the feeling of not quite delivering that hoped-for homiletical fire. Maybe you’ve heard one complaint too many, too much grumbling. The loyal opposition continues to gossip and nitpick. Maybe your wife or kids are unhappy. Maybe you don’t know how to ask the church’s “powers that be” to help you afford to pay your bills. Or maybe you’re just in a funk, feeling like you’re spinning your wheels and not sure why what you’re doing matters.

Wilson goes on to offer words of encouragement, and I’d highly recommend that you read the article in its entirety. But I’d like to take a different approach to the question of what we do with Mondays.

Those of you who are grizzled veteran pastors probably already have a weekly routine that you’ve followed for years. So this is intended more for the younger guys who are starting out and trying to make some sense of their weekly routine.

In one of his books, author and pastor Gordon MacDonald wrote about a question he and his staff would ask each other on Mondays. They used to measure the impact of Sunday by “trucks” (as in being run over by them). “What kind of Sunday did you have?” “It was a four-truck Sunday!”

Sundays take their toll on pastors. Sundays are draining because they require a good deal of energy. Even if the physical output is minimal (which it is unless you do some kind of weird gymnastic thing when you preach or teach) the mental and emotional drain can be substantial.

We expend energy by being “up front.” Some pastors are perfectly comfortable in front of people. But many pastors I’ve talked with have at least a few twinges of nervousness. We expend energy by engaging with people. Saying “hello” isn’t going to require an afternoon nap, but navigating through a group of people can be demanding – especially if a critic or two is tossed into the mix. When churches go through difficulties, leading worship or preaching as if nothing is going on feels like trying to ignore the elephant in the room. It can be a huge drain.

Because of the impact of Sunday, many pastors take Monday as a day off. Maybe that’s your practice. But I’m finding that Friday seems to be the favorite day for many pastors I talk to, and I believe it is the better choice.

To some, Monday makes sense as the day to take off because we need to recharge our batteries. It would seem to make little sense to immerse yourself in work if you’re depleted from the day before. But I think there is a way to accomplish being refreshed while also accomplishing some important ministry tasks and use your day off more strategically.

I used to use Monday to set up and catch up. Monday is a great day for:

  • Reading the books you want to read but can’t seem to get to.
  • Going through email, regular mail or making phone calls that have been on hold.
  • Filing or tossing that stack of papers you have accumulated.
  • Browsing through articles that you’ve marked to “read later.”
  • Visiting someone in a nursing home or hospital.
  • Having lunch with a fellow pastor.
  • Printing out the passage you plan to preach so that you can start making notes on Tuesday. If you diagram sentences, you can do some of that.
  • Writing a thank-you note.

These are generally low-stress tasks but they often get buried once the sermon or lesson prep and other “musts” have your attention.

If you confine the bulk of your “must” tasks to Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, you can hit Friday with most things finished and still have Saturday to complete what is needed for Sunday. Saturdays are generally quiet days around the average church office, so even though you are working, it’s a different pace. This schedule also gives you the opportunity to take a fresh look at your sermon or lesson from a “rested” perspective. I can’t tell you how many times I made significant adjustments to my sermons on Saturday.

Friday, then, becomes a day to recharge at the end of the week. It prepares you to minister with a refreshed spirit on Sunday. You’re looking back on a week of work rather than spending the day anticipating all that you have to do in the coming week.

Monday in the office allows you to recharge a bit while still getting things done. We all need to find our own rhythm, but if you’re still in the discovery phase, maybe this is a good way for you to handle Mondays and those Sunday “trucks.”

A Counter-Culture Virtue for Pastors (Young and Older)

I’m sure it’s happened to you. You hold a door for someone and they walk through like you’re invisible. You pause during rush hour to let someone pull out of a parking lot and they move in without expressing any appreciation. You let someone else take a parking space and there’s no wave to say “thanks.” We live in an entitled society, and while there are exceptions to what I’ve described, more and more it seems like it is becoming the rule. 

Gratitude. The Merriam-Webster Collegiate Dictionary app on my iPad defines gratitude as “the state of being grateful.” That’s like saying that “hurting” is the state of being hurt. But then they define the word further as “thankfulness.”

Maybe you’ve experienced situations in which gratitude has been lacking. Maybe you can think of people who habitually fail to express appreciation when something is done for them. Maybe you’re tempted to preach a sermon on thankfulness as a Christian virtue, which it is. But before you do that, let’s look inside.

I believe this is an especially important quality for younger pastors to develop. It is one of those traits that affects relationships, and it also reflects our attitude toward others in our life. Let’s think a bit about thankfulness.  

For instance, unless you came upon a burning bush, somewhere along the way God put people in your life who guided you toward ministry. Maybe it was a youth leader. Perhaps it was the pastor of your church or a Bible College or seminary professor who took an interest in you. You may have even had someone mentor you, providing you with opportunities to experience ministry and develop your skills. 

Who paid for your education? Maybe you’re still paying for it month by month. And you may be doing that until you’re old and drooling. But many of us have had parents or other relatives who helped us. 

Who has been there to listen to you when you need to vent, when you’ve reached one of those “I have no idea what I’m supposed to do” moment?

How about your wife, who spends more than her fair share of nights either alone or dealing with the kids because of another meeting you have to attend? How about the elder who comes to your defense when someone gets their nose out of joint? What about the older couple who slips you a twenty on the way out of church so you can have a date night? How about the friend who is always there for you, no matter what? Is there someone in your life who was willing to have a hard conversation with you when, as a young man, you showed just a little too much ambition or you didn’t respond well when someone didn’t buy into your ideas?

I could go on, but this suffices to remind us all that we owe a lot to people God has brought into our lives. Have we been appropriately thankful? Are we modeling gratitude for our people, both publicly and privately? 

Colossians 3:12-17 contains a list of instructions about our behavior and attitudes toward one another. In the middle of what Paul writes, he says “and be thankful” (v. 15b). Later in the same paragraph he talks about being thankful toward God. But in this passage he’s addressing gratitude in our relationships with each other. Why does Paul tell us to act in a way that seems so basic? I mean, saying “thank you” is common etiquette, isn’t it?

In 2 Timothy 3:2, Paul tells his young protege that in the last days people will be ungrateful. It almost seems out of place when you see it in the context of the other sinful patterns he says will be more and more prevalent. But from where I sit, I can see it. Can you? Can you see how the spirit of entitlement affects how people act toward each other?

Pastor, let’s watch ourselves on this one. Maybe someone from your past is due a note, an email, or a phone call, telling them you appreciate how they helped you. Maybe you’ve already said it, but is there anything wrong with saying it again? Expressing gratitude and expressing it frequently trains our heart toward humility, because expressing sincere thankfulness reminds us we are not self-made, that we are not self-sufficient. Maybe your wife or a friend should hear again that you are grateful. Maybe your fellow staff members need the encouragement of being appreciated.

Maybe your whole church needs to hear it. What would it be like to close your worship service with this: “Before you go this morning, I want to say thank you and that I love you all. I hope you have a good day.”

Maybe you’ve got this one covered. But maybe if you’re honest, you can do a lot better. If not, take some steps away from the spirit of the age and make expressing thanks more of a habit than it is.

Oh, and before I close this, thanks so much for reading this blog! Have a good day today.

Tools of the Trade for February 17, 2020

A Weekly List of Links and Resources for Pastors

I hope you had a good weekend. Here’s a selection of articles that you may find helpful in your ministry.

Let’s start with one you may especially need today. Jeff Robinson shares “2 Texts to Bolster a Pastor on Monday.”

Winston Smith writes “In Ministry, Joy and Sorry Don’t Cancel Each Other Out.”

Here’s a really provocative question: Micah Hayes asks, “Does Your Youth Group Look Like the Muslim’s Next Door?”

David Murray warns against “The Danger of Culture-Shaped Gospel Service.”

Jason Helopoulos writes about “The Extraordinary Ordinary Preacher.”

Here’s a good article for your literature table. You do have one, right? Christopher Ash write a helpful article titled “How to Pray the Psalms.”

This is one to clip and file for future counseling. Jennifer Greenberg tackles a difficult subject in her article “6 Prayers for Marital Intimacy After Sexual Trauma.”

Ministry can be tough on family life. Tim Counts suggests “Three Ways a Pastor and His Wife Can Stay in Love.”

Reagan Rose lists the “Best Books on Productivity for Christians.”

How do we make decisions about what’s important and what’s less important when it comes to doctrinal discussion? Jonathan Woodyard tells us how Calvin thought in “Not Everything is as Important as the Next Thing.”

Stephen Kneale discusses “The Advance of the New Legalism.” It’s not about going to the movies, playing cards, or dancing.

This is another very helpful article for your literature table. I think we often forget what Greg Morse writes in “Some Wounds Never Heal.”

Here’s an article directed at Church Planters, but it’s worth reading for all pastors. Mark Hallock shares “4 Primary Tasks for the Shepherd-Planter.”

This has nothing to do with ministry, at least in the direct sense. But if you use technology, and most pastors do, this is a helpful article on how you can help protect yourself against hacking.

Jim Elliff writes to people looking for a church, but this might be a helpful yardstick against which to measure your own church.

See you Wednesday! Thanks so much for stopping by!

How A Younger Pastor Can Measure His Progress

We start out in ministry with expectations and a generally raw skill set. Those expectations need to be refined, and our skills need to be developed. 

We are under construction. This is true of all pastors, but especially true of younger men in ministry.

How can a young man tell if he is making progress in ministry? How can he tell if he is becoming a better pastor? Here are five points of measurement. They are hardly exhaustive, but they allow us the opportunity for self-examination.

You have quickly learned that seminary or Bible college did not prepare you fully for ministry.

If you graduated from school, found a ministry position, and hit the ground running, you may have felt prepared for the work God has called you to do. But while your training provided you with tools, it could not prepare you for the variety of situations you will encounter. A favorite mantra of many pastors is “They didn’t teach us this in seminary/Bible College.” In no way has your training been a waste of time. But you should be learning more about ministry from doing it than you did in a classroom. Can you identify ways in which you have learned from your experience?

You have a deeper commitment to God’s Word as the only lasting agent of change.

Pastors are surrounded by seminars, books, videos, and articles that make claims to change people. I used to get calls from salespersons telling of the latest and greatest and promising that their program would revolutionize my church. There are helpful tools that we can take advantage of, but if you think a special video series will take your church to the next level, you will be very disappointed. The regular preaching and teaching of God’s Word is the only thing God promises to bring change. Are you satisfied with that, or are you constantly looking for the next big thing?

You are attempting to know and love the whole church, not just the segment you minister to.

I’m directing this primarily at those of you who serve in associate positions where your focus is on a particular age group or type of ministry. If you are a pastor in a church, you are a pastor to the church. You may not share the same shepherding responsibilities as other men on staff, but if you only care about the people in your focus area, the rest of the church will conclude that you don’t really care about them. What are you doing to get to know the church at large?

Your are finding your own place as a preacher or teacher.

Let me explain. Some guys start out having been heavily influenced by the way someone else preaches and they try to emulate that person. Others have spent or are still spending time in the seminary classroom and their preaching leans toward the academic. All of us have to find our comfort zone with how we use notes: full manuscript, outline, no notes (not recommended). When you first began preaching or teaching, you may have sounded stiff and ill-at-ease. As you look back, do you feel that your preaching and teaching is more natural, more down to earth? Have you come to feel comfortable in your own skin? 

You are increasing in your dependence upon God.

Paul wrote this in 2 Corinthians: “Such is the confidence that we have through Christ toward God. Not that we are sufficient in ourselves to claim anything as coming from us, but our sufficiency is from God,” (2 Cor. 3:4-5, ESV). 

Preaching and teaching, leading, dealing with people and their problems, facing opposition, and the host of other experiences that make up ministry can be overwhelming. And sometimes we will get discouraged. But if we are growing as pastors, we will have a growing dependence on God to be both our help and the one who brings about the change in our people. How have you seen your dependence on God grow?

How do you measure up? Young pastor, can you see progress? Veteran pastor, are you continuing to grow in these areas too?

God gifts us differently. Some men will be people of great influence. Most of us will be perfectly ordinary. But God has equipped all of us to do the work he has called us to. So from the first day we set foot in the first church God calls us to, until the last day we are involved in ministry, we are under construction. If we recognize that, and with God’s help work to be the best we can be, I believe that God will prosper our ministry.

To Pastor Is To Suffer

If you are going to be in pastoral ministry, you are going to suffer.

I don’t want to be a Debbie Downer, but take a look at your own ministry. Mixed in with what I hope are moments of delight, of exhilaration, of deep satisfaction, there are moments (or periods) of suffering. If this is foreign to you, it won’t be for long. That’s true for you younger guys as well as veterans.

Pastors suffer with their people.

Didn’t Paul say, “Weep with those who weep.” (Romans 12:15b, ESV)? And didn’t he tell us in 1 Corinthians 12:26, “If one member suffers, all suffer together” (ESV)?

Years ago I used a personality inventory that made an interesting observation. The scoring guide said that those who worked in people-related fields: nurses, law enforcement, health and safety, and pastors often scored low on the part of the test that measured sympathy. Thankfully they went on to explain the reason. It seems that dealing with crises on a regular basis can result in being emotionally detached. In some cases that’s absolutely necessary. But as pastors, we have to do our best to avoid being clinical or appear aloof.

Suffering with our people means that we bear their burdens. You may find yourself unable to sleep because you know what’s likely going on in the homes of some of your people, or because of your concern for the woman who received the unexpected bad news from her doctor. It also means that we don’t become so immersed in our tasks that we fail to take time to make a phone call or make ourselves available to talk.

Pastors suffer through church troubles.

Some pastors seem to ride an easy path with minimal upset and grief. Others seem to deal with crisis after crisis. Whether troubles come infrequently or seem to be the norm for your ministry, trouble causes suffering. It may be that we suffer physically, with the particular crisis taking a toll on our bodies, robbing us of sleep. Perhaps we suffer emotionally as we deal with anxiety, discouragement, frustration, and a feeling of helplessness as we put out one fire only to have two others burst into flame. Maybe our work suffers, as we give time to the needs of our people and to problems in our churches, making it hard for us to find the time to prepare our sermons or do the other work that we’re supposed to do.

Pastoral’s suffer personally,

Pastors have their own issues that the struggle with. But I am thinking of those times when pastors are the targets of very angry and disgruntled people. When I cleaned out my office after retiring I shredded a pile of papers, some of them letters that were real scorchers. I glanced over a few of them, somewhat surprised they weren’t still hot to the touch. These had come from Christian people.

Consider the passage where Paul talks about the pressure of the anxiety he experiences for the churches in his care (2 Corinthians 11:28). We know some of the problems Paul encountered in his ministry, but I doubt that we know all of them. And the point here is not “Paul had to deal with so much more than any one of us will ever had, so buck up.” No! The point is that in that verse – and in many others Paul acknowledges that his was a ministry of suffering.

Peter has encouragement for those who suffer, and while his word are directed at all believers, they certainly apply to those in ministry:

Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world. And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you. To him be the dominion forever and ever. Amen (1 Peter 5:6-10, ESV).

Note that this paragraph follows one in which Peter gives instructions to Elders/Pastors on how they are to go about their ministry, so I don’t think it’s a stretch to apply it to those in ministry.

Pastoral suffering makes us vulnerable. We need to exercise great caution during times of trouble. We need to care for ourselves physically, emotionally, and spiritually. But when we suffer we can be confident that God has not abandoned us. But also notice this sentence in verse 9: “…the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world.”

I’ve written often about the need for a fraternal relationship between those of us in ministry. You can’t get up on Sunday mornings and tell your church that you feel crushed by the various problems that you’re dealing with. You can’t tell them that last week you thought a situation was resolved but this week it’s twice as bad. But you can tell friends in ministry. I sincerely hope you are cultivating those kinds of relationships with a few other men so that you can bear their burdens and share your burdens.

Pastoral ministry means suffering. Sometimes a little, sometimes a lot. If you are going through the fires of trouble right now, may God give you wisdom while you deal with them, and may he soon deliver you from them. And if you know a brother pastor who is going through those fires, why not make a phone call or extend an invitation to have lunch and pray together?

Tools of the Trade for February 10, 2020

A Weekly List of Links and Resources for Pastors

It’s a glorious week as baseball’s spring training begins. While you follow your favorite team, here are some articles to read, file, or share.

Ajith Fernando speaks to the subject “Is the Church Facing A Discipleship Crisis?”

Brad Larson tells us “How to Fire Someone Like Jesus Would.” If you’ve had to make staff changes you know how painful it can be. This is also one to share with businesspersons in your congregation.

This one is worth holding onto for counseling couples or doing premarital counseling. Tim Challies gives us “A Few Practical Pointers on Sexual Intimacy.”

Tim also wrote “On Living in a Post-Christian Context.”

Jeremy Todd affirms “Yes, Pastors Should Have Friends in the Church”

Here is an article for church planters, but it applies to anyone thinking through ministry strategy.

Andrew Menkis shares insights in this article that would work well on your your literature table: “What You Need to Know About God’s Plan for Your Life.”

Stephen Wellum writes “10 Doctrines You Need Today (And Every Day).” Aside from good reading, maybe this can be the skeleton for a preaching or teaching series in your church.

Nicholas Davis tells us “How to Build Community in a Consumer Church Culture.”

Greg Morse answers a difficult question: “Will Hell Really Last Forever? Answering Objections to Eternal Punishment.”

Peter Mead talks about common, ordinary preachers and encourages us that “Your Church Does Not Need a Superstar.”

Brianna Lambert writes a thoughtful article on a very unusual subject. “Worship God: Start a Hobby.”

Amanda Criss writes an article to share with the moms in your church: “The Inefficient Ministry of Motherhood.”

John Bloom encourages people going through trouble in his article “Waiting for God Alone: How Desperation Teaches Us to Trust.”

John Lee with 9Marks shares a really helpful piece called “Defining the Stuff We Do On Sunday Mornings: A Congregational Worship Glossary.”

The folks at Crossway share links and information about the key creeds and confessions of the Christian Church. It would be worth sharing and is must reading for you as a pastor.

I have a few others that I had saved for this week, but this should keep you reading. I find reading these kinds of articles to be both helpful and educational. I hope you find something like that here.

Have a good week!